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Lately I keep hearing how we need to turn communication into a fun game.
At the Mesh11 conference,Gabe Zichermann talked about how marketing is becoming “gamified,” with badges, rescue missions and other techniques adapted from video games. As Gabe said, “The future is fun.”
This week the New York Times featured an article about how Groupon is using fun writing in its email marketing to become this year’s online success darling.
Sure, most workplaces encourage fun on special occasions. But usually there’s a thick black marker line between work and fun. Even in pro-fun offices, you hear: “We work hard. We play hard.”
But maybe that line is fading. Hooray!
The anti-fun campaign began in grade school when the teachers told us to stop horsing around. Yet the teachers I remember, and learned the most from, knew how to make learning fun.
At work, I’ve often gotten into trouble for having too much fun: for laughing too loudly, for not taking this week’s flavor seriously enough.
Yet, because I enjoy what I do, work is usually fun. What’s more, I frequently build in fun for others. For example, with the software engineer I’m about to interview, I’ll probably chat briefly, maybe say something funny, to put him at ease before I start asking questions.
I don’t know how I would have survived the treacherous passages in my life had I not been able to laugh. Even when I’m too grim to see the humour in my predicament, I can always find a funny TV show or other fun diversion to lift my spirits.
Like a game, I also give myself rewards when I complete a task, especially the ones I loathe. For example, when I finished my tax preparation, I let myself buy red jeans. Now I smile every time I put them on.
I love how blogging has allowed me to tap into my fun side. I would never have written about the relationship between laughter and peeing in the corporate world. But maybe I should have gone for more amusing anecdotes or wry comments, my personal brand of humour, though nothing sarcastic or mean.
In my writing training, I advise people how to use humour in workplace communication. Don’t you always remember the presenter who started with a good joke? Don’t you want to do business, and pleasure, with fun people?
I’m going to further explore this notion of gamification, which I had earlier written off because of my total lack of interest in video games and such. I see how mesmerized my teens get. I’ve always enjoyed board and card games. And, despite the best efforts of teachers and bosses, I never stopped wanting to have fun.
As Cyndi Lauper sang: “Girls just wanna have fun.”
Lucky for me, fun is becoming serious business.
Tell a story. That’s the advice we are always receiving about our work writing.
But before you create that epic tale, step back and think about how you often dread hearing stories from that long-winded boss, aging aunt or chatter box friend. That’s usually because they go on for too long, don’t seem to have a point or involve people you don’t give a fig about.
If rattling on like this is annoying in conversation, just think of how yawn-inducing it is with the written word.
Unless you are a gifted storyteller, you need to keep your anecdotes short. You need to have a clearly identifiable point. And you need to tell them about people your readers can relate to or care about.
Let me stress that I love the show-me power of stories. Well done, they touch people emotionally, encourage them to draw conclusions, humanize the writer, entertain, reinforce points, build credibility–-and much more. However, when they are poorly done, eyes glaze over, minds travel and fingers hit keys to leave your site.
I admit that I’m no Shaherazad, which explains why I’m not a rich novelist or screen writer. Chances are neither are you.
But I am adept with a quick anecdote or passing references to friends, family and interests. I enjoy letting readers get to know me a little better by telling quick stories about my personal experiences. For clients, I often rely on vignettes that show employee enthusiasm or happy customers.
Six tips
From this experience, here’s what I’ve figured out:
1. Keep your story very short.
2. Choose your details carefully. You are not painting a picture, but zooming in on the bits that illustrate your point in a vivid and compelling way.
3. Don’t describe the setting or back story. If it’s vital, show it through an action or a revealing detail.
4. State the clear moral or point of your story. Don’t assume your readers will get it.
5. Know your limitations. If you feel that the eyes may be wandering, or worse still, rolling, shorten the story.
6. Make quick references to personal experiences to weave elements of story telling into more of your writing.
Remember that few people are great spoken story tellers. Even fewer excel at writing stories.
But if you follow these tips, you can keep eyes and minds open and riveted on you.
These tips demonstrate why you need to refer back to what works in conversation when you write. And why you need to read my book, Write like you talk–only better..
They also remind me of a story…
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Just like in a story, though, the higher the mountain, the more rewarding the quest.
Sure, there are lots more questions you can ask. But if you can figure out the answers to these two, you can get inside the head of this person and like-minded people.